Life's Little Surprises
I've had my share of failed
relationships, and I sometimes wonder if all couples will come to this
point where someone will cheat on their partner.
That little girl in me would still like to believe that fairytales do happen in real life.
For
someone who is that little bit jaded, I sometimes attend weddings
wondering if the couple will last. In the last couple of years, however,
I've been to weddings which make me smile, and I'm starting to believe again that real,
committed, loving, faithful partners exist.
Candyce and Junyang's was the first
of the series of loving weddings. And then it was followed by Raymond
and Yvonne's. Then Japheth and Barbara's. Followed by Roanna and Leonard's, and then Yvonne (another Yvonne of course, which kinda makes me wonder if all Yvonnes will marry loving husbands) and Andy's.
Hosted and sang at Andy and Yvonne's wedding about 3 weeks back. |
I also had the
honour of hosting and singing at Roanna and Leonard's wedding. Thanks
dears, for allowing me to help make your wedding special. =)
These
weddings I attended made me smile from the bottom of my heart, and even
moved me to tears in some parts. I sincerely wish their love eternal
forever magical. All of them seem to be doing well, and I'm really happy
for them. Roanna is now preggers and they call the baby in her "Cashew"
(cos it was shaped like one..lol). Congratulations my dear~ I know with
you and Leonard, "Cashew" will grow up happy and fine. ;)
That
is the kind of wedding and marriage I hope for myself. The kind which
people will look at and smile, and sincerely wish well. There are
weddings I have attended which doesn't make people feel that way, either
the love is not strong enough, or for some warped
I-think-it's-time-for-me-to-get-married-so-I-do reason, they get
married, but I don't feel the bliss exuding from them. If you have bad
vibes about marrying this partner, don't.
May catching this bless me. *wink*
The kind of love, and the kind of man
I want to marry, has to feel right. It has to make me feel secure that
no matter what happens, we will be there for each other to support and
encourage, and catch when the other party falls. A nurturing
relationship, one would call it. I'm learning to live my life and love
myself the way I should, so that this man can appear. Maybe he already
has, but hasn't morphed into someone I know will be my partner, buddy,
confidante, lover, for life. Maybe he's around me as a friend or we have
met back in school. Or maybe some I-met-you-on-the-plane-remember?
incident will occur and there he will be.
Life's little surprises. I look at
the clouds and I smile. Yes, I am at peace, and can smile now. It's
amazing to know that you can let go of the things which used to upset
you so much. You can't rush it. It'll just happen. And I think over the
last 2 weeks in Laos and Indonesia, it happened.
Where will life take me next? *looks forward and smiles*
'You can't rush it. It'll just happen. And I think over the last 2 weeks in Laos and Indonesia, it happened'
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